Intuition

by David Ferrers on 17/06/2009

I have a number of very clever clients. These high flyers are much better educated, more numerate, better read and they hold down much more senior positions than I ever achieved.

So why do they come to me for help?

Perhaps at least part of the answer lies in an email I received from one client who asked another, who he had recommended to me, how he was getting on. This is what the email said: “XXX spoke highly of the coaching he is receiving. He said you were very good at seeing the whole person and spotting the right angles to develop. I very much agreed.”

Of course it’s flattering to receive such feedback, but the point is that perhaps my advantage is in not having a mind that is over-cluttered with everyday thoughts and information, so that there is space for free-wheeling thoughts to just spontaneously rise to the surface,

Albert Einstein said: “The only real valuable thing is intuition.”

It seems to me that intuition functions best when we do not attempt to work out answers but rather allow them to emerge from a thought free mind.

The keys to using your intuition are not to think too hard in trying to find an answer, but rather to allow the answer to emerge. Then, when you have an idea you need to exercise judgement before implementing or proposing your idea to others.

Perhaps you have some thoughts of your own on the subject of intuition that you would like to add in the comments box below.

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How to Achieve More

by David Ferrers on 03/05/2009

Whilst watching a horse trails this morning a thought suddenly occurred to me.

It’s so simple it surprised me that I hadn’t thought about it before. “Some people have limited horizons.” They just do not look beyond their immediate environment. They cannot see any future beyond what they currently enjoy.

Their horizons are limited by their experiences, by the environment in which they were brought up and by the teachers they had at school.

As I thought about this theme it became obvious that one of the most important lessons we can teach our children is to dream big dreams, to imagine themselves in many different scenarios.

But, “how do you teach a full grown adult to suddenly expand their horizons. Might it not be scary out there in Imagination Land?”

We are all limited to some extent by our fears and beliefs. And this is where a good coach comes into his or her own. A good coach is like a companion or friend on our journeys into the unknown.

It is easier to explore the darkness when you have a companion.

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